Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel. What if you are sexually incompatible. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts. Some day he hopes to make it to Romania and settle down. When my husband and I were sealed, I finally understood why my Dad had been stressing this to me my entire life.